Parenting When You're Not Physically Present: The Power of Connection

As a parent, it's not uncommon to feel guilty for missing milestones or important moments in your child's life due to work or other commitments. However, just because you're not physically present doesn't mean you can't still form a strong connection with your child.

Anecdote

One of our Dad University members, Rob, shared with us how he maintains a connection with his son, even though he's often traveling for work. Rob would make it a point to FaceTime with his son every night before bed and read him a bedtime story. He also sends care packages with small trinkets and letters inside to let his son know he's thinking of him. Despite the distance, Rob's son knows that his father loves and cares for him.

According to a study by the University of Wisconsin-Madison, the quality of parent-child communication predicts academic success, mental health, and social competence in children. This means that keeping the lines of communication open, even when physically apart, can have a significant impact on your child's well-being.

Furthermore, a study by the Center for Parent and Teen Communication found that over 60% of teenagers wish they could spend more time talking to their parents. By making time for regular communication, even when not physically present, parents can help meet this desire and build a stronger relationship with their children.

Parenting When You're Not Physically Present: The Power of Connection

Practical Tips

1. Set up regular video calls or phone calls with your child to check in on their day and catch up on what's happening in their life.
2. Send care packages or letters to let your child know you're thinking of them.
3. Be present and engaged during the time you do have with your child, whether it's weekends or evenings. Make the most of the time you have together.

Conclusion

1. Maintaining communication when physically apart is crucial for building a strong parent-child relationship.
2. Regular check-ins and care packages can help foster a sense of connection and love, even when not physically present.
3. Being present and engaged during the time you do have with your child is just as important for strengthening your relationship.